I just got into one of these and I know better, after a relationship from NY-to-CA. I've made her my friend, and I have no immediate intention of ever meeting her. She's only 70 minutes away on the train.

The unique thing about the internet and relationships on them is that you have no physical responsibility to the prison - only emotional. It really tells a lot how people can't seem to keep their hands away even when in a so-called purely emotional relationship.

You wish to fuck and comfort your bodies. You're animals. You can address those needs separately, but you might feel guilty.