I'm just going to come out with it. I have a problem doing this and I know I am going to be hurt in the future because of it. I see a guy ramming his dick into a girl as a very big deal, as that's just the closest and most intimate you can get with someone. Anyone know how I can get rid of this mindset? Sex is very common especially these days but I haven't come to terms with it and still see it as a big deal.