I realized a few days ago that I don't think I will ever be able to find a girl I actually like and be with her. I am an extremely shy person so for the most part I will never approach girls myself. So instead I basically rely on girls to come to me, which surprisingly does happen; however, it seems to be that the girls who ARE interested in me and approach me never have anything in common with me. I quickly get bored of them and sadly have to cut off whatever we have going (which I hate because I am overly shy). In an ideal girl she would be smart, shy and we would have some of the same interests (internet, philosophy etc.). But I can't seem to find a girl like this at all. And how would I ever be able to even find out that a girl is like this? I can barely approach girls in the first place. It's not even like there's someone at my school or something that I can approach, I have already ruled them all out for being too closed minded (I live in the south currently). I am clueless as to what to do from here. Maybe I am thinking about things too much as I am only sixteen but I am actually longing for some sort of female companionship. I am basically lost at this point and I have no clue what to do. Please help me! Thank you!