[Survey] How old were you the first time? (172)

160 Name: SpireAtlanta!SGRPrwhmGE!!DwFbhmLv : 2008-02-28 09:43 ID:+RaP3T+a

>>154 I'm told that being a virgin at older ages may attract women to you (not sure how true that is), and I have seen several people express respect for those who have kept it. In other words, if you're a "nice guy" or "good guy" type, it could work to your benefit in the long run. (Maybe. I've also heard a bit about girls wanting experience. We need some women here for input.)

But yeah, if you seriously wanted to get laid, being a social recluse isn't your problem. You can learn some very basic social and networking skills, go to some parties, and you won't have great difficulty getting sex if you aren't particularly picky, I imagine. There are a number of willing girls. (Perhaps shooting for younger ages {Read 18-20} will provide you with better chances, as they may be less focused on school.)

>>156 Completely understand your situation. The whole dilemma about what emotional effects will result, thoughts about performance with "that one person" (If you believe in that sort of thing to any degree. Even if it's just the first/next very long-term relationship you have.), their potential response to your past activities (and the variables of how recent or far back they were/are), the general desire for sex, and the potential of emotional connection it can bring.

Sex is no easy topic.

As for the long-distance relationship: Might I advise against those in the future? I've had and seen very terrible endings in the majority of them. If you know each other face to face for a long time before going LDR it's one thing, but if not.. wow the results.

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