Every time I look through here, that start of most of the posts is:
"Let me start off by saying I'm pretty Shy."
You just figured out your problem. I was pretty shy too, and I synpathize, but the answers you're getting are the same answers people have been giving on this board since this board began. You all know why things are hard for you, and if you don't know what to do about them you can peruse the board at your leisure for the many solutions.
Don't take life so seriously, yo? High school doesn't last forever, shit blows over, etc. etc.
Aaaaand Done.
(PS: I'm not trying to troll, so hopefully I didn't hurt any feelings, but sriously, you all know the answers, and you just want to fantasize a way into NOT knowing the answers because the answer is scary.)
you´re right...!!
>>1
speaks the truth
there are soo many fucking threads with the same fucking quesiton. everyone here wants to be densha. sorry to say kiddies, it aint going to happen.
>>3
even the top of the page they tell people that. ultimately it's what >>1 is saying. densha offers an answer that's completely unrealistic and fantastical (she'll come to you, you won't have to do anything, she, the internet, and sitcom magic will see you through) and everybody wants that answer to be theirs.
Yeah, I sympathize with these guys to a point, but part of growing up is growing out of your shell, not caring what others think, standing up for yourself. They have to find value within themselves, not from how others percieve them. Only THEN - when you see the true value in yourself and you display your confidence - will people finally take serious notice of you.
Hell, I walk all over some shy people, just because they have to learn. I'm not mean, but when they leave a decision up to me, even if I know they'd prefer one way, I'll take the other.
Anyway, I'm going to leave this - I'll just start ranting.
sometimes knowing the answers isnt enough and people just feel the need for people to agree with them. Its basic human nature, as independant as we may act most people just like to have people helping and or agreeing with them.
>>4 she'll come to you, you won't have to do anything
Huh? That's not what densha was like at all...
I think his point was that love is not like those in fiction. You have to go out and actively work for a girl's love.
You are right but some people have crippling shynnes that really gets them. I am kinda shy but not that shy.
Quoted for truth. Well, at least the first paragraph. One needs to find value within themselves to ever prosper in a relationship. It just doesn't work if the two don't tango.
the thing i feel sorry for those who are "pretty shy" is that they havent even hold womens hand(in this case, women are exception, because they r dumped after having sex).
i guess theyll end up with a getting ugly girl friend with small tits(with black nipples) and short legs, or even getting no girl friends at all forever.