Decisions, decisions (26)

5 Name: Devil's Advocate : 2006-12-17 07:27 ID:LdqFEkCd

ok, i'll be the devil's advocate here:

i can somewhat understand their feelings if they were crushed by you being "like a couple" with this new guy. it's possible that they really were in love with you and felt like there was the possibility of them getting closer to you. then, out of the blue - some random guy they've never met shows up, and you do things with him you haven't done with them. i'd be crushed too. in a funny and pitiful way, they probably felt betrayed.
i wouldn't have spread rumors about you - that is pretty extreme, but people do irrational things when they are jealous, hurt and angry. i can understand not talking to you though - they may have realized that you don't want them (or they don't want you) and decided to forget you.
they may have thought you were being loose with this new guy. true, he wasn't new - you've known him for years, and they don't know what happened on that night. but they may have seen you as sleeping around with some guy who you just met. even though that doesn't excuse what they did, it may help explain it.
ultimately, if the angry guys don't matter to you, forget them and think about your relationship with this not-new guy.

and i think that anyone that sleeps with someone they don't love truly and deeply is at the very least a whore, whether they are a man or a woman.

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