How to get over... (14)

1 Name: Foolish Female : 2006-12-21 01:00 ID:Y9rGxAAB

Okay, perhaps I am just foolish, but as much as I despire women who are infatuated with the wrong type of guys, there is no point in trying to deny that I am the same.

Throughout the many years of schools, I've always had a crush on this guy. He is the type of guy that is arrogant, good looking, popular, and so forth. Adding to that, he has slept around with around seven girls, I believe. Well, he has a girlfriend. I know I should hate him for sleeping around when such, and would generally look down on guys that do so, but I just can't with him. You see, he and I are not strangers. We are, in a few ways, friends. Like I've said, we've known each other for years because of school and usually talk everyday, though not always. And despite his typical behavior and attitude, he is actually a nice guy. It may be for that reason that I like him.

Even so, I know I need to get over him and find better people. Is it possible after so many years? Should I try and pursue him? I just don't know anymore. I don't think I am the best looking girl ever, so I know he would only have sex with me and act like nothing ever happened. I'd have nothing to gain.

Any help would be appreciated.

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