>>I need to get over him and find better people
Thread over.
Seriously tho, fuck that.
I was in the same situation a while back, except the guy had also just gotten out of a relationship with my best friend. We had the same sense of humor, liked the same music, I thought we were you know, FRIENDS. I tried to start something a little more with him as I felt that stupid, "oh no, i can change him" feeling comin' on
BUT
it murphy lawed on me and now I can barely think about him without getting pissed off.
If he's been an ass to all those other girls, I am willing to bet paper monies he will be an ass to you AND/OR complete rejection.
Very sorry, best of luck, etc.