My girlfriend goes out and flirts with cute guys. I know shes only having abit of fun and nothing would come from it but i hate it. It makes me feel like im not good enuth for her.

How do i know this? Because she told me, it came up in a conversation - "What ya been up to today? well, we went to the mall, guess who was there! The thorntuns guy! so we flirted with him, hes so cute! I love it when he blushes". We talk about EVERYTHING, its as if we're really close friends rather than partners.. minus the fact that we stare into eachothers eyes and 'make love' etc.

Another factor, Its a long distance relationship. We're seeing eachother fairly oftain.. im hoping once every three months AT LEAST for now (Obviously it will increase). I guess she needs the physical conection with someone? maybe not physical, but flirting and stuff.

The anoying thing is i dont even look at other girls anymore. Everyone i see who i'd usually go nuts for i think "But shes not [girlfriends name here]" and i dont even look twice. I dont even look once damnit, its more of a 'notice there is another human over there' kinda thing. I dont even look at famous people or 'worship' and band members or whatever. She is the only girl in my life!

Im not too sure what im asking. I need to get this all out and have feedback on it. Yaknow, get it off my chest and stuff. I want to talk to her about it but i dont want to challenge our relationship or upset her.

GAAAAAAAAAAAH