Nervous about Sex (13)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-09 16:36 ID:g1qKd9lu

Hi. I'm a girl, 18, and I have a boyfriend. (Makes it sound like AA or something?)
Anyway, we've only been dating for like 2 weeks an the question of sex has already come up. I've basically told him that I definately want to EVENTUALLY, but not QUITE so early. Basically I'd like us to be dating for at least a couple months first. (This is mostly because I'm a virgin, and he and I haven't even done the "I love you" thing yet.) So we've only done pretty much "under the shirt" stuff.

But I'm very nervous. Although I want to have sex (nobody is pressuring me, I assure you) I'm a very body conscious person. Especially about my lower body, which is of course where the whole focus of sex IS. I'm not a fat person, really. My BMI is in the healthy range...but only just barely. And while I know that he probably wont care, I'm afraid that I'm going to ruin my own first sexual experience by being preoccupied with making sure that my purple scar on the back of my fatass thigh is covered or something.

I've been losing weigh and trying to tan a little (fake tan, I can't natural tan at all) and working on trying to make the horrible skin on my legs and arse look okay, and I've been using scar cream...but I know I wont be perfect by the time I have sex.

So tell me...are most people really self conscious when they have sex, or does that all fly out of your head once you get into it? Because I'm scared that I'll spend my whole first time thinking "OH GOD MAYBE HE CAN FEEL THAT LITTLE BUMP ON MY ASS JESUS CHRIST NOOO"

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