Is fate........destiny??? (22)

1 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-13 06:53 ID:6H7ILtfG

Why does fate look at "destiny" and then puts her in my view?
Why does "destiny" look at me and ignores me?
Why does fate give "destiny" my cousin to be a friend?
Why does "destiny" look so good?

Tell me how to introduce myself to a random girl at a party.
Tell me why/how?
By the way "destiny" is a girl.

2 Name: 7|/\/-7|/\/ : 2007-01-13 07:09 ID:ZqbaPf6d

Maybe when she's getting food/a drink, you can say hello.

3 Name: TEENAGER : 2007-01-13 08:15 ID:Heaven

>>1

I see you have hots for your cousin.

Unless you live in an anime h-game, your chances of getting some hot sorta-incestual action going on are quite slim ;_;

4 Name: NANA : 2007-01-13 13:28 ID:jKi9Jw5W

>>3
I think what he actually meant is.....That 'destiny' girl is friends with his cousin. Thus, he know her via the cousin.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-13 14:12 ID:rzBdgHmP

There's no such thing as fate.

You happened to be looking in one direction and she happened to be in your view.
She didn't notice you. She only saw you as another human being.
Coincidence.
Cause her parents genes make a good combination.

6 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-13 18:06 ID:6H7ILtfG

>>4
Right on that's what i meant.

>>5
are you sure?
And what does her parents genes ahve to do with this?

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-13 18:46 ID:nF+guVYK

Yep.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-14 00:35 ID:Heaven

Wtf. I thought this was a poem, and then a riddle. But it's just a crappy phrasing of a question...I don't know which line to answer.

So far all we know is that she's;
-Pretty
-Friend of a cousin
-A girl

Hence I can conclude: Fate is not Destiny.

9 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-14 01:02 ID:6N/2NUV+

>>8
Check this:
is it weird for a random guy to talk to a seemingly random girl out of the blue?
Will it make her feel uncomfortable?
Or
how about calling the random girl?
Will she think of me as a stalker or something?

10 Name: 8 : 2007-01-14 01:50 ID:AtKinDmJ

>>9
Don't make out of the blue then. Any gathering scene is the best time to meet new people.
Your first line to the girl should be simple, casual, making her feel comfortable in your presence. Lines like "Hey, how's the party?" "I don't think we've met.." And then develop the conversation from there. Which should be pretty safe for a first timer like yourself.
I wouldn't go as far to call her. She hasn't exactly given you permission to use her number yet.

11 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-14 02:44 ID:6N/2NUV+

>>10

Too bad the party is over...
why does she have to give me permission?
What heppens if I use my cousin's phone?

12 Name: 7|/\/-7|/\/ : 2007-01-14 02:44 ID:ZqbaPf6d

>>10

I agree.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-14 03:11 ID:Heaven

>>11
What? Why do you need permission to use a phone number? Are you 12?

As much as you want to hear her honey-dripping voice, some random professing his love over the phone WILL freak her out.

But here's an idea, take advantage of your links with your cousin. Get them to drop a hint to the girl that you like her.

"Hey, how's the party?" Was an example. Use your own imagination. I'm giving advice, not a script.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-14 04:39 ID:lYbWq8wP

Calling her without knowing her will make you stalkerish. You need to arrange some how to meet this girl and talk to her and give her a good first impression and then call her up and do the whole courtship thing. Permission is not the problem, it the fact she doesn't know who you are. You fucked up once by not taking action the first time and you are suffering for it. You will be luckily to get a second and I promise you there will not be a third. Fellas if you see a cute girl don't be afraid to say 'Hi' honestly that is the best pick up line ever.

15 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-15 06:43 ID:7NvZVuUB

16 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-15 06:46 ID:7NvZVuUB

>>13

oops, sorry on the last post.
So that party is over, and my chances of meeting her now is probably till next year or if i'm lucky to drop in on my cousin's random get together.
How do you get over this hurdle of problem?
Should i just give up and find another girl or sit this down and figure a way?

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 07:55 ID:Heaven

>>16
um, tell your cousin you thought she was cute and beg for a fixup? is this not obvious or something?

18 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-15 08:25 ID:7NvZVuUB

>>17
ok she said: "your cousin? i think so? what about it?"

now what?
how do i get around this one?
what do i say?

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 10:21 ID:Heaven

>>18
What the. More information?
Ps. How old are you?
Pps. Are you having a delayed conversation or something?

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-15 20:58 ID:Heaven

ITT time paradox

21 Name: tha-paper : 2007-01-17 06:20 ID:NxieKpsd

>>19

Age does not matter.
Yes it is delayed.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-17 07:56 ID:Heaven

ITT: We lol.

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