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What? Why do you need permission to use a phone number? Are you 12?

As much as you want to hear her honey-dripping voice, some random professing his love over the phone WILL freak her out.

But here's an idea, take advantage of your links with your cousin. Get them to drop a hint to the girl that you like her.

"Hey, how's the party?" Was an example. Use your own imagination. I'm giving advice, not a script.