Once again... (17)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-23 12:59 ID:38aW3Vlt

At work, I was intro'd to this girl from another girl who works there. I like her, I told this girl that I like her, after 6 days (yeah, a bit too fast). She didnt outright reject me, but she did try to quote the lyrics from the song "Don't Say you love me". I read the lyrics, so I think she does like me in a way. But she keeps telling me how I will be hurt once I found out who she is and how she's not good enough nor confidence to be in love (not that I ever told her I love her, just that I like her, there is a difference). What should I do? (And nothing about sticking my manhood out please)

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-23 21:41 ID:Heaven

>>1 Just wait around until some rich guy gets her then leaves because he can't take her shit. Then you'll have a very nice spoiled bitch in your hands, ready for, well, more shit on you.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-24 01:56 ID:Heaven

can we have a link to the lyrics? i can't find it.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-24 01:57 ID:uB09CJtQ

above person, mistaken sage , bump

5 Name: fart man : 2007-01-24 03:18 ID:6/fIhL2X

>>1
probably, shes still thinking about whether u are a right person to go out with or not.
u stick ur finger into her ass and tell "hey bitch, make up ur mind NOW"

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-24 22:30 ID:Heaven

>>3
ugh.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-24 22:30 ID:Heaven

Wait a while. Get to know her.

6 days? Are you crazy?

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-25 01:37 ID:v5lW57la

I think the best way to go would be to tell her you are ready to face whichever challenges come up along the way! Why not right?

9 Name: fart man : 2007-01-25 06:41 ID:6/fIhL2X

>>1

>I told this girl that I like her, after 6 days

u shouldve waited longer. girls usually dont fall in love that quick. probably ur going far ahead of her. leave her until she catches u up

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-26 09:00 ID:Heaven

>leave her until she catches u up

considering that the average attention span of women is like 1 day(s), i don't think that will help.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-27 23:21 ID:38aW3Vlt

>>7 and >>8

Fall in love, yes 6 days is way too quick but not to like someone or feel attracted to right? Plus what I said to her was that I like her and I want her to go out with me, and get to know each other better.

But an update. I talked to her about it for the 2nd or 3rd time, she's giving me all these inconsistent excuses why she can't go out with me. Eg. she's lesbian, she already likes another guy, her parents won't approve since they don't like Hongkies, her grandma won't like me, she's not good enough for me, etc.
Not to mention the fact that as she says these things and telling me no, her facial expression tells me she's kinda enjoying my attention and focus on her. And the fact her friend seems to think I have a chance while this girl says her friend is wrong and that I have no chance.

Guys are easily confused about these things, or so I'm told. And right now I'm really confused.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-27 23:31 ID:SHwJOwk6

I agree with >>7

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-29 02:48 ID:Heaven

> she's lesbian, she already likes another guy, her parents won't approve since they don't like Hongkies, her grandma won't like me, she's not good enough for me, etc

Get a clue?

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-29 05:22 ID:pEpdkuDL

See how she reacts when you stop talking to her about it. If she brings it up, or keeps on wanting your attention, she's probably interested.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-29 06:12 ID:LSUreEke

Ignore her for a while. She'll either miss you, and bug you to go out with her, or be happy.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-29 14:48 ID:pp9SrQzA

On another note, I luuuuuuuuurve honkies. Almost as much as I love mudkips.

17 Name: fart man : 2007-01-29 21:37 ID:6/fIhL2X

>>10
sorry >>9 was a bit confusing. what i said meant take time. u dont totally leave her alone, and say nothing to her. but u know, just treat her like a good friend.

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