talking to a shy girl (10)

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-01-30 12:08 ID:+rTCgVfE

I'm doing an essay at the moment, for my final degree, on planning theory, the public interest and technical rationality. This subject area is considered to be the highest level of thought on assessing human development. I will consider this triviality of the human dilemma a challenge. As a purely intellectual challenge to myself, I will attempt to reduce the grand theorem of humanity's endeavour down to a single predicament involving a crush on a girl at school. Here we go.

If we take the grand concept of human development and it's infinitely nuanced objectives, values and definitions and reduce them to a single idea, I suppose you could say 'humans want stuff'. What they want, why they want it, how they get it and what happens when they do get it is not very well defined, simply because ecologically, humanity is infinitely nuanced.

There are no absolutes. We know that between the colours black and white we have an infinite number of shades of grey, therefore by virtue of this knowledge we understand that nothing is definite, but we can draw some conclusions and boundaries around what we find.

In this case we find you fancy a girl and that she's shy. Social interaction is bounded by an ability to communicate effectively on an interpersonal level, so I'd recommend that you talk to her as much as you like. The subject matter of conversation is infinitely nuanced, therefore your judgement is as good as anybody else's. Then, you ask her out on a date. There is no guarantee that she will say yes, as nothing can be absolutely determined, but you should, using your highly evolved brain, be able to vaguely assess whether the physical, social and economic parameters for mate assessment have been fulfilled by both parties.

Give it a shot and ask.

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