I'm a guy, and I had a friend in high school who was a girl. For the whole school year we constantly wrote letters back and forth, passing them in the hallway. We had similar interests and became really good friends. I really like here and on Valentin's Day gave her a big velvet heart-shaped box of candy. I gave her so many signs I liked her...we talked on the phone for hours almost every day. So, one day I got up the courage to ask her to 'date' me. She stood there and said, "I don't think we should date b/c we're too young and I don't want to lose my focus on Christianity." (we were both big on Christianity ). I was crushed ＿|￣|○ I couldn't understand why. Summer came, we didn't talk. The next semester I gave her a letter, she never replied. She ended up dating a gothic guy at school (who I was somewhat friends with). They had lots of sex. Now she is at a different college than me with a different boyfriend. But, I saw her at my college the other day with another friend from high school. We hung out and talked...she laughed nearly at everything I said. It made me think I had another chance with her...but, is it worth pursuing? I saw her myspace page and she has another boyfriend. Should I just forget her and look for someone else?