Well, I'm single again! does a fucking retarded dance And that's all well and good but... it's been 1 month since my break-up and I'm needin' to GET SOME. Or somethin' like that. Basically, the sky is on fire with lust.
Well hot diggity-damn, I already got myself a date Thursday, and I didn't even have to try! A decently cute girl who's a friend-of-a-friend (I've known her peripherally for about a year) suddenly seems very smitten by me- got the phone calls, the interest in "getting together sometime", being very giggly around me... it's so darned cute. So I asked her out and she more than gladly accepted. It's allllriiiight on a Thursday night, it seems.
However, there is the question of wanting to be a gentleman, but also being "hungry like the wolf". I'm going to be blatantly honest: I'm horny, and I have a history of fucking on the first date sometimes. I'd really love that to happen Thursday. However, I think this girl might genuinely... liiiiike me. Now, that's pretty cool, and I'll see where things go with that, but... if she genuinely is already smitten with me, would me giving her a little bit of the ol' professional-league leapfrog most likely end up makin' me a possible heartbreaker if, say, things don't work out?
Word, help me out bros and sistahs.
>>most likely end up makin' me a possible heartbreaker if, say, things don't work out?
Well, wtf do YOU reckon, brotha'?
Tell her about your intentions upfront, and also mention that you might regardless not be interested in a long-term relationship. Then at least she gets the option to be ok with that.
You know it's the right thing to do, don't try to fool nobody. I get the feeling you're a fucker for starters, but if she is one too then at least you're not preying on sheep.
I think she waited a month just to not seem desperate to hook up with you. Beware.
And to be perfectly honest I think you should tie your dick into a knot until you find someone you want to be with. Don't turn into another shithead, and if you already are, devolve.
>Tell her about your intentions upfront, and also mention that you >might regardless not be interested in a long-term relationship. >Then at least she gets the option to be ok with that.
Ah ha ha ho, if only it were that easy. No, I'm not sitting down with her at one point tomorrow and say... that to her. BUT... you say:
>You know it's the right thing to do, don't try to fool nobody. I >get the feeling you're a fucker for starters, but if she is one >too then at least you're not preying on sheep.
That is something I should take into account; I don't know this girl very well, and am not sure whether or not she's a "sheep" like you said. I should obviously feel this out.
>I think she waited a month just to not seem desperate to hook >up with you. Beware.
Well, it's different from that: she didn't know that I was taken during that time period. In fact, for all I know she still doesn't know that I broke up with someone a month ago.
Man, I just need to chill out; it'll be cool. And if I need to hold back on her, I'll just look through my cell phone across the last couple of numbers I got.
>>Ah ha ha ho, if only it were that easy.
It is that easy. Either she too only wants sex and then she will be like: "alright thats cool."
Or she wants more and then she'll be like: "Ok, I need to go now.... ;-;". But thats better than: "FUCKING SHITHEAD I HATE YOU!!! ;-;;-;;-;;-;" a few weeks/months later.
>>Well, it's different from that: she didn't know that I was taken during that time period. In fact, for all I know she still doesn't know that I broke up with someone a month ago.
lol!
You know girls have a startling capacity to pick things up and follow matters at a safe distance. But well if you say so.
maybe she is as horney as you are. there are no rules. do what feels right as long as you honer her feelings and wishes then no one gets hurt
Well, she skipped out on a date because, she told me, she had a "very long session" with her therapist.
But later that night my fires were quenched with someone entirely different =)
Damn.
haha.. its ok to have sex with her. if she seems she wants to get more serious after than then you should let her know thats not waht you want but dont tell her ass directly. give clues and hints and let her figure it out