23 yrs. old virgin here. Never even kissed or dated, or been in any sort of one-on-one situation with a girl, for that matter.
To be honest, women really aren't that attractive to me, either. I'm definately not a homosexual (soundly proved that), but I've never met a girl that I could honestly say I was sexually attracted to. And I've seen all types.
So I'm sexually frustrated, but every woman I see is a total boner killer, regardless of how she looks. Plus I have literally no friends and almost never leave the house.
At least most of you so called "life long virgins" at least have some hope. You're just not looking positive at your situation.
I'm an optimist, and I still recognize that I'm going to die alone and virginal.
orz