Hiya all.
I often come her to check out things here. Post a little, every now and than. never expected I was going to need your help..
So there is this girl.
She's giving me positive signals, AND negative.. >.<
She already knows I like her. not that I told her.. but.. well... I think I'm just too obvious.
She asked me if I was in love.
I told her I did.
She asked if that girl loved me too.
I said I didn;t knew because she wasn't clear to me.
Naturally I asked her the same.
She told me she was in love with a guy. He probably loved her but she wasn't sure she really liked him.
She loved him but at the same time she didn't.
Actually she wasn't sure.
Note: That guy who loves her is me. I'm certain. We knew we were talking about eachother.(irony?)
When she told she wasn't sure she liked the guy yes or no and didn't knew if it could work out, I went offline after an awkward silence. (ow, yes.. this happened on MSN)
Within a minute or so she send me a SMS: where are you all of sudden? Like wtf? Doesn't she understands why? (rhetorical Q)
anyways.. How should I proceed?
How can I fix this mess in making this where I want it to go?
please help me.
thanks in advance
Obviously she just wants you to prove yourself by making the first move and showing her what you want. She is insecure, afraid of getting hurt. I guess you are too but hey here's your chance to show who's the man.
Here's a protip though: Don't do it on msn, via mail, sms or over the phone.
WHAT THE FUCK, MAN.
YOU HAD HER IN YOUR PALM AND SUDDENLY YOU CHICKENED?!
Also Mr. 2 has the right idea. BE A MAN AND MAKE THE MOVE. In real life, ofcourse. Good lord, man. Use your head for once D:
P.S. DO IT.
ehr maek lol no
dada?
thanks for that protip.. figured out that one myself...
as you said.. I made my move in RL.
and well.. she got upset and doesn't wants to talk to me anymore.. -_-'
She said she had never known. But I got proof she did. a friend of her told me she knew so..
well.. I'll see how this's gonna end if it didn't end already.
for now.. topic shouldn't be active.
if it works out, it works out. if it doesn't, honestly, i can tell you from experience, it would have ended eventually anyways. at least now you can get it over with and move on or whatever. If you had just stayed her friend, chances are eventually you'll give and give everything to her and never get anything back. and such a situation is a breeding ground for resentment. eventually the friendship would end one way or another.