Establishing contact (7)

1 Name: љ : 2007-03-20 15:30 ID:ehW/mgTa

I really suck at making contact. Otherwise I am fairly normal socially, and have quite high self-confidence

Tell me how to do, some tips and tricks, anything, I really fail totally at it! :P

2 Name: љ : 2007-03-20 15:31 ID:ehW/mgTa

...and I'm a guy btw

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-20 23:35 ID:BIzWmPdS

just stay calm and cool. there is no magical tip. the more expereince you have the less fear you will have when oyu meet someone new.

4 Name: љ : 2007-03-21 07:52 ID:ehW/mgTa

>>3

Yes, I know that, but I feel completely lost at it due to my lack of experience

I was hoping people would post stories about their own successes/failures here, perhaps I could learn something from them

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-21 10:52 ID:UCdKP5xq

Stop trying to hard with the nametag first.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-21 10:52 ID:UCdKP5xq

*too

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-21 16:48 ID:Y9rlWExx

build experience. whenever you go out try to talk to girls. i am sure you have friend that know girls if you dont know any. whenever you are with them and their female friends arrive, just start talking to them.

as for an amazing story...

my dorm is 3 stories, the first and third are all guys while the second is all girls. i live on the first and also there is a study lounge on my floor. it is just a few couchs a desk and a tv. on the first week of the term, i was walking by and saw a girl there sitting and watching tv by herself, which is odd because most people have tv in their rooms. i walk in and ask her why she is there and she told me she forgot to bring a coaxial cable to use her tv and she had to get her daily dose of friends. we just started to talk and thats about it. she has a boyfriend, but i really dont care, got a new friend out of it plus she does have a roommate...

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