greetings minna-san ~ (3)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-05 01:59 ID:eVBrTTeV

I have a boyfriend, however i sometimes feel attracted to other men, not like i want to leave my boyfriend, since i love him so much, and just passing one day without him makes me feel depressed. but sometimes i think they are hot and start imagining going out with them and stuff like that.

is this normal? ...what does it mean?

Also... This is somewhat weird... My boyfriend really thinks i am beautiful and all that, but today he told my attitude was exactly like a boy's attitude, and that i was starting to look like a boy in my facial expressions... and such... He continues to like my body and continues to be horny and everything when near me, but he reacts kinda weirdly to some things i do that are more boy-ish...

what should i do about it? just stay the way i am? ... since he loves me anyway?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-05 03:59 ID:DctzPcu+

It's normal. Hey, you're with him happy and all, yet you have to fantasize. As you can (well, do) have him, it's natural that a part of your fantasies go to other men. As long as you do not take the step of making it real, and you don't tell him you think about that (great confidence killer for him, in himself and in yourself).

And about what you are, what you do... do not radically change, but just watch yourself. Are you starting to look like a boy in your facial expressions? Try to avoid that, well at least when it's something you can do. Do not go against who you are essentially, because that would be bad for yourself first, and probably for your couple then, but just... take care. So that he sees you've taken note of what he said to you.

That's my piece of advice, take it for what it is.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-04-05 11:41 ID:kGHfD3MT

>Are you starting to look like a boy in your facial expressions?

When i say that... I mean that i have a really relaxed attitude, so i make all kinds of funny expressions, he laughs with me, and he thinks they are funny, but then he comes to me and says i behave like a boy...

I shouldn't worry right? He loves me the way i am...

Thank you for your advice >>2 ! ( ゚ ヮ゚)/

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