My brother just confessed to me that he's in love with me, what do i do? (140)

12 Name: thread poster : 2007-05-02 08:01 ID:v+1s0KIV

Thank you so much you guys for the advice. I really appreciate it because i really do need advice right now and i absolutely cannot talk to anyone i know about this! I'm actually very surprised that a lot of you suggested that i give my brother a chance. To tell you the truth i was expecting to see a lot of "ewww, that's gross" or "that's really wrong" comments.

Well, since i really haven't made up my mind what to do, i basically chose the first of my option which was to not address it and pretend everything is normal. So far, he has tried his best to act like nothing happened too. I was afraid it would be awkward when i see him this morning and all throughout the day but he acted normal and was very talkative to me this morning. However, i can tell he's just trying to act all happy and normal because, well i'm his sister, i can always tell when he's "acting". But seriously, i don't know what's wrong with me. I should've just told him straight up this morning that nothing can ever happen between us, but i think a small part of me is wondering if it could. I do admit that, after he confessed to me, i began to think about it as a possibility because, i don't know...i kind of am attracted to him (i think i always have been), but that's normal because he's handsome and i'm not blind or anything. And also, he has a great personality and he's always thinking of me before himself. Basically these are the things i thought about last night lol. And when i saw him this morning, i kind of felt like....really nervous, anxious and giddy at the same time. It's the same feeling you feel whenever you see a crush.

I'm soooooo confused right now! I don't know what to do! And to answer the person asking me to imagine kissing him and gauge my reaction, i did and my reaction was a mix of nervousness and giddiness....no repulsion! Ahhh, I'm so confused!!! I know it's wrong and bad and everything and that my parents would be devastated if they knew and that we'd probably not ever be able to get anywhere with any kind of relationship because we can't tell anyone and whoever we do tell will be disgusted! I guess the obvious thing to do is to let him know directly that i won't be able to reciprocate his feelings, even if it is a lie, for both our sakes! I will let you guys know what happens. Please give me more advice on the matter.

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