Okay essentially I an unhappy person and a born and bred pessimist. I have extraordinary mood swings from ecstatic to carving half-way up my arm.
I met this chick, she was pretty cool and ended up moving back to Alaska. One of the emails she sent me after she went back was "DU U HAEV GF?"
Fact of the matter is that I (still) do and I have this drive to have sex with any chick who shows any attention to me. Sadly I was truthful and said "LOL YES BUT THANX OMG". She started talking to me again, says she's going to Las Vegas and will fly me out there on her dime and we'd have a weekend where she'd gamble and I'd be the money man. Plus that night she brought up the specter of "Do you really regret not asking me out". I do but I answered in a wishy-washy way without explaining that I do but I don't because you went back home and I would've been more sad than I was at the time.
Later that night I got drunk, wrote her an email with a cheesy line of "If I told you that you had a beautiful body..." along with a fun prod of "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas." She never responded and now it's awkward talking to her online.
Did I misread her? Was she simply being a player like me? Did I come on too strong? Minor note, the closest thing that she's brought up sexually was "never fry bacon in the nude" and I quoted some trivia about penises.
you should have been more coy
Seriously there are two things going in AlaskaWoman's favor.
She's the first woman who has ever shown proactive interest in me as a person. Every other girl I had to chase. Secondly she has big tits but so does my GF.
Should have not gotten drunk. If talking to her wont work then its safe to assume you shot yourself in the foot.
>and I quoted some trivia about penises.
i lol'd, great end to the story!
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in terms of the situation, i think you may have spoiled your chances. let it be a lesson, if you get drunk do not email/text/phone people to confess your love (or just be over the top flirty) itll take a long time of chatting normally to get over the awkwardness, and even after you've got over it it doesnt mean you'll have another chance to score with her.
oh and mate, if you're wanting to go round screwing other girls why the hell do you have a girlfriend? its not fair on her if its just for convenience and that really you just want to fuck anything that moves.
I don't want to fuck anything that moves. I want to have intimacy AlaskaWoman, GothChick and my gf. Trust me I've tried the whole anonymous quickie one night stand thing and I just can't get it up. The closest I got to a one night stand was banging this chick I knew from the internet for half a year who had a layover (lol) near me for 24 hours. If I had just met her, I could not have been able to perform.
... ... I was gone for one day and it looks like I missed so much >_> wow. Well little missy I hope you find what's in your heart and I know you came to this site for an honest oppinion. I'm sorry that we were argueing on your thread it was childish I will admit... So yeah again I'm sorry. As for my oppinion I'd say you shouldn't supress it, that could be bad for not only your brain but as well as for your heart. Maybe you could try relieveing your stress stress somehow? A good way is to tire yourself out. I'm a big fan of DDR you should give it a try turn all that stress into energy! I find this very effective and it calms you down. Or just try to have fun, get your mind off the situation and enjoy life to the fullest! XD Lets take our worries and throw them to the wind!
yeah.. this post belongs in another thread sorry about that! XD ^^^
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hay guise OP here.
This chick on MySpace, ten years my senior and not too shabby either, is hitting on me and she's in town (she lives 60 miles away).
Also things with AlaskaWoman are alright. I've made my peace with the stocky but cute bulldyke GothChick and now this.
Honestly I'm not trying to troll but I'm fat, nearly middle aged, thankfully I'm not balding and my job makes me stupid yet I'm able to attract tail. What am I doing right? I'm a misanthrope wannabe-hikikimori.
At the moment I'm chalking it up that attached men end up being more attractive to the opposite sex.