>> so sex with three people at the same time and not waiting until marriage is a no no for me.

What about sex with more than three people at a time and they're all married couples? Would that make it okay?

Also OP you have to understand that the Japanese are really racist. Of course they're all smiles but in Japan a smile is not a sign of happiness or friendship but of aggression and anxiety. Japanese racism is the kind of racism that would make a redneck from Alabama blush and consider ripping the stars and bars off the bumper of his pickup truck.

You'd probably be best to hit on and have a fling with a Westernized asian. Honestly they're all sideways down there. Only difference with the Japanese are the crooked teeth, animation and futanari.