> i'm a weird, gothy trap. i'm into strange music
It sounds like I would hate you if I ever met you. I'd probably slap sense into you. But I have advice anyway. I'm a really quirky person too. When you have this sort of bizarre, difficult-to-understand personality, you won't make many friends. There are only two things you can do:
You can have unlimited patience and end up like the dog in Futurama. Or you can blend in entirely and lose your personality. Figure out a balance. Wearing more normal clothes would be a start.