Hey guys... I just wanted somewhere to talk about soemthing that's worrying me. I wanted to start a Thread in 4Chan or 7Chan... maybe 12Chan... but then again, that kind pages are not for this kind of topics. Specially not when I want serious answers.
So, I've been in an internet relationship for the past two years, and I'm happy and he's happy. Everything is going perfect. I've visited him more than once already... about five times per year, each time visiting for a couple of weeks. Some fo the trips I've payed, ut most of the trips he's been the one who's willing to pay.
The problem is, I tell my closest friedns about him, and they don't want to even TRY to support me. Not even when I point out how many more advantages tahn disadvantages I have when it comes to "web dating" and chatting with my guy than actually dating people around me.
They can't understand that it's a lot easier to spend time with him online, since, we can be online almost all day and if we want to talk about soemthing we don't have to wait until we're off work or finished with our homework, because we can talk and do most of our responsibilities at the same time.
They keep telling me that I can get hurt by getting cheated on, but that hardly worries me anymore. I've been cheated and dumped already, twice, by the same reason both times, and I'm sick of worrying about the "what if"s...
I've come to realize that you lose more time in worrying about the "what if"s than actually doing whatever you need to do to complete your goals.
I don't want to change myself just because two pricks cheated on me... it's no reason to start not trusting people, because I know not all people are imbeciles. Specially now, that I have someone special waiting for me on the other side...
I'm sure some of you met or have a special someone over the net... maybe not, but sincerely, I don't see any diference in having acquaintances over the web than in "real life". Either way, they're people... and they can't use the typical idea that "maybe he's not the person he says he is", because if it weren't like that, how come I've been able to visit him about ten times now with having no problems bigger than deciding how would he like his eggs during breakfast?