Honestly, you should give up without one last try. When/if you call, you should say what you feel and say what you plan to do. If she says no, then thats it. if not, good luck. but either way, you should say what you think and not what we tell you to say.(confused yet?)
AAnyways, don't consider it a failure without that last desperate try! You can even just remain friends at the very least.

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I hate the idea of practice relationships. I mean, why get into a relationship if you have no intention of going any further than that? sex? Thats sad.