I hate to say it, but as a guy, if you're shy & not really talking to me, I'd be bluntly afraid to ask you out, for fear that you're not "into me", and would be offended by me asking...

For the sake of all guys like me, you've got to show some interest, or dare I say even ask us out, if you want anything to happen...

A shy girl is pretty cool, and I find that charming, but as a shy guy, we're terrified of rejection, and fear that you'd be real turned-off if we were to ask you out...