btw the last post refered to posts 2-5

to the OP: For christ sakes ask them out, especially the ones who appear to be the shy type like you. Don't automatically go for the outgoing obnoxious jock's (not saying you are but i'm just saying). They'll ultimately treat you like shit. You, as a woman, have a very special power to boost the confidence of shy guys just by asking them out. You just might open up a side to them you never knew they had in them. God, I wish someone could do that for me... So, GO FOR IT.