mixed signals (6)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-28 23:35 ID:w/l0owC6

there's this girl and i think she might fancy me. shes always glancing at me. she talks to me really nervously almost all the time and asks me really random questions.

but half the time, when i try to talk to her (because i like her alot) she ignores me/is pretty unresponsive

is this some sort of hot and cold tactic or what?

just thought id ask

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 02:04 ID:Heaven

I have no fucking idea. Thinking about this makes my brain hurt. She might hate you. Or the other thing. What manner of random questions are these? Like, what you had for breakfast? Maybe give an example, perhaps not an actual example for privacy reasons.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 09:19 ID:sE1DbKV9

>>1
There's only one cure: Be frank, ask her why she gives you mixed signals, because you like her and want to know if you should be getting over her or courting her.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 10:05 ID:QBQm4Tqc

Yes, be frank, ask her why is she rude sometimes (but no needs to tell her you like her, imo).

5 Name: OP : 2007-06-29 13:51 ID:dMs1qFMB

the sort of questions r like "what sort of music do u like?"
then she immediately says that she likes that aswel. not just music, with alot of other stuff aswel.

yeh, i think being frank is the best thing, cheers :D

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-06-29 16:44 ID:Heaven

>>4
If he doesn't, and she think that he doesn't like her, she probably will pretend she doesn't like him even if she does. She acts fucked up enough to do so.
Why? Because of the same reason some people dump their partner as soon as they suspect they're gonna get dumped by them. "Lulz, preventative measures." I know a bloke who got dumped because he was acting fishy and she thought he was gonna dump her, when he was just trying to arrange some fun things to celebrate the 6 months they had dated. Needless to say, he didn't get together with her again, even after her misconception was cleared up.

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