He's right Crucified, they go after you because you are Atheist. Most women search for adventurous, or rebels, and this is when you appear, you are a rebel.
They have a routine, a series of teachings you don't have, not only that, but you hate them. Maybe you should try to be less open about being an Atheist ?
That and, trying to look sharper, and mainly trying to hit on non-catholics (although they are the ones that hit on you). You can always keep the catholics as playing dolls, ignore them, fuck them, carry one with your life, get a spectacular girlfriend.