...I'm not really the kinda guy that stays home all day playing games, watching anime, and fapping to hentai and av idols. In fact I do get out and I've had quite an abundant amount of girls...not fat desperate ones either.
Anyways I think it got to a point where I've started finding flaws in girls and getting pretty picky. Not really in looks but more personality wise. After flirting and spending a week or two with a girl I'd get bored of them and they'd start getting irritating...except for this one girl.
There's this one girl that I've known for more than 5 years and we've been through everything together and not once have I ever noticed a single flaw in her. I think I've always loved her eventhough I dated many other girls. However, recently she moved to Taiwan and won't be back for another 2-3 years. When we parted I think she still sees me as just a really close friend.
Should I confess my feelings for her and hope that our long distance relationship (if she feels the same way) will last for 2 years? or should I just wait until she comes back and confess then.
>>...I'm not really the kinda guy that stays home all day playing games, watching anime, and fapping to hentai and av idols. In fact I do get out and I've had quite an abundant amount of girls...not fat desperate ones either.
LIE DETECTOR GOING OFF THE CHARTS.
Just wait. Think about it - Nothing good can happen if you confess now! Even if she does reciprocate your love, the relationship will not work out well because of the distance. Besides, it's a lot easier to reject someone miles away. Wait until she's back with you and ask her out on a date, if you still feel the same way. In the meantime try not to think about her so much.
I agree with #3.
I agree with #2
I agree with #5.
People are so shallow...
They go with whatever that is convenient with them.
That defines lazy people.
If you believe that the relationship could work and if you believe that you would love this girl then do it.
Of course you have to plan somethings but your hard work and waiting could pay up.
But you better not regret it no matter what since you wanted it that way.
Choice is up to you choose carefully!
Also lots of people think long distance is impossible (from experience and such), it's not all true. Show them that long distance is possible! (if you choose to that is).
Goodluck
long-distance relationship is possible. however, in this case it seems like it IS the move convenient option for OP. here's the thing- distance puts a heavy strain on any relationship. i think you actually run the risk of ruining a true relationship once she gets back by trying to do some weird long-distance thing for two years. i would advise spending the time she's away making yourself as attractive as possible (not necessarily physically, but career/income/education as well). and if things don't work out in the end, you'll be operating on a higher level and be able to attract more women.
Long distance relationships don't work out well in the end, I don't mean to discourage you, but they could find someone else whever she is
>>2
Agreed. There isn't a guy who has not NOT played any games, so on, so forth... hmph. i really don't like writing a lot.
>>9
Well, sometimes they work out. I don't have any interest in them, personally, but they do occasionally work out. I wouldn't advise someone to put much hope into a long distance relationship. That's why I don't do them.
Yeah but he was just saying he isn't the type of guy that spends all of his time doing that type of thing. It's not like he said that he doesn't.
i didnt say i DONT play games, and do all that other stuff -_-. I'm just trying to say I'm not your generic sterotypical otaku nerd that has no love experience at all and has a world that revolves around games and what not.
Anyways I was chatting with her a few days ago and i somewhat hinted that i was in love with her just to gauge her reaction. But I don't think she took me seriously at all...I think she's too used to my flirty attitude and the way i hit on every girl thats decent looking.
Well in any case I decided to remain as close friends until the next time I see her. Hopefully I'll be able to improve myself and change my attitude in these 2 years. Then if i still have feelings for her in 2 years I'll confess then.