a friend as a fuck buddy (11)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-27 07:21 ID:AVzF0Y9/

how would you go in asking a friend if she would like to fool around?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-27 07:27 ID:Z1iYzXeP

you never 'ask' shit like that. most of it the time it just happens

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-27 14:37 ID:bvbASdW9

>> 2

lol

But seriously. Ask and be as clear as possible. Communication is key. You just have to go for it. "Do you want to be friends with benefits, no strings attached?"

If she thinks you're asking her to be your boyfriend then that's a whole new set of problems you're bringing onto yourself.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-27 15:30 ID:Heaven

>>3
Clearly someone that's never been in a relationship like that.

>>2
Seconded. It just happens. There's some chemistry, you're watching a movie or some shit together, you start cuddling, it proceeds from there.

Why not just ask her out? Asking someone to be in a physical relationship yet simultaneously be impervious to the pain of you getting involved with someone else is a lot to ask. And, in my opinion, incredibly unhealthy.

Get over your commitment issues and grow a pair of balls.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-27 16:10 ID:aEp6x3wH

What's with all this monogamy talk?

I really wonder at how incredibly ingrained monogamy is still. That's probably one of the bigger social obstacles we'll have to overcome in the coming century(ies).

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-28 03:57 ID:GYfR3iLM

You first fuck her, then ask her to be your friend. Seldom you are friends first then you fool around. Too many emotions involved.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-28 15:35 ID:Heaven

>>6
You first fuck her forcibly.

Oops. Probably shouldn't suggest that here.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-28 17:56 ID:AVzF0Y9/

>>7

I read and took your advice.. Now, i'm in prison using their internet system.. Thanks a lot!

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-28 19:16 ID:CRwUCXTI

>>5
I, for one, don't think monogamy will every die. Call me old-fashioned and selfish, but there's no way I'm sharing my girlfriend with anyone else. Have you ever been in love before?

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-07-29 11:20 ID:NHwkWuDl

amen, I hate to share my girl with anyone, people can call me closed minded and selfish but I could give a rat's ass. She's mine and you can't have her.

(In before someone says she doesn't belong to me.)

11 Name: SAGE : 2007-07-29 18:14 ID:Heaven

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