I've been around here a few times I was the author of http://4-ch.net/love/kareha.pl/1173213584/l50
Long story short, I developed an up-tightness and frigidity about women, maybe due to that, maybe due to something else, maybe both.
So, last night I went to a party. I get kind of depressed at parties when there's a larger group (larger than, say, six people), so I was just standing away from everyone, minding my own business and looking out for the people who were legless. Then the host comes over (girl, attractive, etc.), so I put on my whole "I'm a loner" act, but she doesn't leave me alone. Throughout the evening, she was hugging me, attaching herself to my arm, etc.
When there were a few people left (there was me, her, another girl, some back country dude and this guy who was slipping in and out of consciousness, she's getting cold so I give her my jumper. Then she's snuggling up to me. Like, arms around me, resting against my chest on the ground.
So, this morning I asked her if she wanted to pursue it or just leave it as a thing that just happened. She wanted to continue it, which I was more than happy to acquiesce to.
So, now I have a girlfriend again, and this is where I need your help. I won't be able to see her THAT often as I work a forty hour week and she lives about an hour away from me by car. How often to I contact her without seeming like a creepy stalker, but showing her that I care about her and want to know what's going on?
Sorry about the massive wall of text, too, by the way.
Wow, well, if she was that persistent, even though you put on a "loner act" she must really like you. So I'm guessing you knew the host before?
The worst part in your scenario is the distance, especially with the price of gas these days. Don't know if I know any good ways around that one, unless your schedule(s) lets one of you stay over at the others' place for half the week, or at least two days in a row type spurts.
I did know the host, but not very well. We've got a kind of strange history, but, yeah. Weekends would probably be the way to go with contact, as she has uni five days a week and works on Saturdays. I dunno. I just want this to work (Heh, nothing unique there.). We're so different, yet we just seem to "click". However, I'm also reluctant. Ha, I guess we'll just have to see how it goes, right?
Heh, I work a 40hr work week, and was seeing a girl about an hour & a half to two hours away... Granted, that didn't work out, but for other reasons;
An hour away is nothin'! Heck, I live half an hour away from where I work, for example...
An hour's nothin' to drive after work, and even if you spent the night... I know lots of people who get up in the morning & drive an hour into work, so even if you stayed there... It wouldn't be bad either...
And if things progress in the future, I don't know if she's a student or has a job or whatever, but perhaps either she'd relocate to come be with you, or vice versa...
It sounds like she was really into you (and I'm hoping it was more than a physical attraction, more along the lines of something lasting, so see where it goes... An hour drive's nothing compared to a good relationship!