Umm... Going past all the prison rape..

Well, honestly, go along with the flow and make your own decisions. If you want to tell people, tell. If she wants to tell people, let her. Long distant relationships are hard, and can bare tough problems along the way.

If you understand what you're in at the moment, and can honestly say you're not ashamed of it, then go and tell everyone! If not, try understanding both your feelings and hers before making any big decisions.

The thing about making decisions, is that a lot of people don't really understand them, even if they say they do.