I recently pulled a very beautiful girl I had fancied for ages on a night out and we ended up going back to her place.

I’d wanted to nail this girl for months so I was under a bit of pressure to perform. After some awkward fooling around and uncomfortable sex I was spent.

I didn’t really know what to do so I decided it was better to leave. I don’t know what came over me but for some reason I stood up, shook her hand (yes shook her hand) and said: “Well played,” before walking out of the door with my trousers under my arm.

I honestly don’t know why I did it but as soon as I left I dropped to my knees in embarrassment and cried like a girl. I really want to see this girl again but she won’t speak to me. What can I do?