... Money means nothing, reading this made me feel sad that men perceive women as being money-chasers.

>so I wouldn't have to rely on her if I needed money (which would be horrible)

What's so wrong in that ?
You guys want to know what is NOT attractive ? This type of conversation, i mean... why did you bring money up anyway ? Of course that having money = having no problems finding women, but the type of women that you will get are the type of women you are worthy of getting.

What's attractive to me in men is... honesty and dedication to his work.