I'm dating this chick right now. We met on the internet (I know I know) and we talked for 5 years about, but recently we've been able to meet because of her coming to live here. She's of Japanese descent, she just moved here from Japan. She's absolutely beautiful, cute, very sweet. But I don't know if anybody has ever seen the show As Told by Ginger. If you have, she has huge dental headgear like the main character's black friend. She's great, but her head looks like a satellite dish. And she can't just wear it at night, her teeth are so bad she needs it 24/7. But it's never bothered me. She says she could have them for years possibly, and doesn't even have a time table for getting it off, and I don't care. She's still beautiful with it, maybe even more so. Her speech is cute, since she's good at writing and typing English but sometimes isn't very good at speaking it. Or at least, she speaks it with the usual Japanese inflection that doesn't sound perfect, and the headgear affects her speech too so it's just a bit obscured. Of course her having the headgear came as no surprise to me, she didn't hide it from me before we met in person. Anyway the thing is today we were just hanging out, playing video games and doing what we usually do. Stuff happens, and it ends up that she's pulled my dick out of my jeans and is rubbing it and blushing. I'm just sitting there enjoying it, "in the zone" if you will (I'm a virgin so it was pretty good to me). Then she goes down to give me a blowjob, and I start slightly freaking out. I don't think it's inherently dangerous with the headgear, but I didn't want my dick to get snapped off by something in her mouth, so I resisted, and she noticed. And she got angry. She slapped me and left. I don't really know what to do, I think I overreacted about getting freaked out over it. Do I say "Sorry I wouldn't let you give me a blowjob"? Should I let her give me one to make up for it? Or was I right in resisting?