Older Girl Problems (8)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-20 03:53 ID:wH2+VR0n

Ok, basically this is wats going on.

I'm 18 and im currently dating a 23 year old girl. This is my first real relationship ( i think im starting to love her but not sure)...

Neways, Shes older than me and we do have a lot of sex (basically every night after she gets off work).

But here is the problem, Being older than me... (or just more socially aware) she has a shitload of friends. Both boys and girls.

I dont know if its just me but i really dont know what to think when shes hanging out with other guys. Shes kinda tomboyish... and im pretty sure shes not cheating on me or anything... but theres always the posibility...

I really dont want to be hurt... but all in the same i think shes really nice. Anyways i need some serious advice.. BTW you can flame all you want but to me i feel its a serious problem..

Am I just being too jelous or wat???

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-20 04:16 ID:i9gh76mt

I used to feel the same way for my first relationship... try making girl "friends" and you will feel much better, or you can talk to her about how you feel about it. As long as she doesn't act all bitchy and gets defensive, don't worry about it that much. At least you get to have sex every night.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-20 04:26 ID:wH2+VR0n

well... i really do like the sex and all... but i guess i dont like her having guy friends... or maybe im just too controling -.-... but yea i guess ill try to make some girl "friends"

4 Name: person : 2007-09-27 04:15 ID:MUq6I2xY

the only way to test is to ask her to do it in the ass. if she says yes then shes a slut/whore because only whores take it in the ass so therefore she is cheating on you. if she says no then its salgood.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-27 05:31 ID:rrkbSBzE

An older woman will dump you eventually. It's purely sexual and has no long term future. Enjoy it by all means, but remember one day it will be over.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-02 13:04 ID:Vt9jlyFi

how can you love her if you don't trust her? you have to decide if you're going to take the risk of trusting her. trust and love are always risks, you always run the risk of getting hurt. and you will get hurt, many times, before your life is through. but that's okay, that's how you learn and grow.

that being said, it's normal and good for her to have friends of all sorts. same for you. get out more.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-05 18:48 ID:TDNlSIMK

>>1
I know who you are. Your yellow fever will eventually subside.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-05 18:52 ID:TDNlSIMK

Also, you're probably both horribly ugly, as the average 23 year old won't even go after a 21 year old. Find yourself a real woman.

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