Besides sex, there are many things to do to please a man. I please my boyfriend and keep him happy with cooking him dinner as much as I can. That seems to make him the most happy but his pleasure is very important to me so I like to do more than just that. Cooking for a man is so basic, it is something all women should just do anyway.

He works very hard with his hands and after work they are often sore, so I will massage them. When I see him after he gets off work I always ask how his day went, and I listen carefully without cutting him off to chatter about my own day because mine is not as important because I don't do as much as he does. So, I am careful not to bore him with workplace gossip unless I know for sure if it will amuse him.

Just relaxing quietly is nice too. During this time I like to just massage him while we watch a movie or just spend quiet time together.

When we are at a party, I am careful not follow him around the place and I encourage him to be social with his friends and drink with the boys, but despite this he is the one that follows me. I think it is just important to let a man be a man and not try to keep him on a leash. Makes him feel trapped, and if he cares for you...he'll always come back.

Then there is the part about talking. We never ever talk on the phone. Neither one of us care for it, and there is nothing so important that needs to be said that it can't just wait until we see each other. Communication is good, but mindless talk is not.

Lastly, the sex. Everyone is different, but don't lay there like a dead horse and don't treat oral sex like a chore. You are capable of giving a man immense pleasure, it's a beautiful thing. During the act I think it is important to be a bit vocal, tell him how good he feels and whatever else that might come to mind. You should not have to hold back.