"Can we just be friends?" (36)

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-22 01:15 ID:a5eaRwBZ

The "Just friends" card's only played because most people can't really think of a better solution. Really, it's not limited to girls, so I don't see why people are so pissed off at females.

I'm a girl, and I've had three boyfriends in my short life, all of which ended up dumping me, and they all pretty much played the "Let's be friends" card, which I heartily accepted, after some time with some space away from them so I wouldn't become a drama queen. It worked quite well, I'm still friends with them, and there's no animosity. My roommate's ex did the same thing, telling her "let's be friends" when they broke it off. It's not just girls that do it at all, and it's really not so bad if both parties can at least try and be mature about it.

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