"Can we just be friends?" (36)

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-10-22 07:02 ID:eLt7oHlF

>>22

What's so hard to understand about the "sparing his feeings" part? If a girl pulls the just friends things she doesn't want to be mean to the guy. Again, she's trying to say that "Hey, you're not an unpleasent person, but I don't think romance is going to work out." I don't see how that's so hard to follow.

If you're trying to say that it's easier for girls to approach "cool guys" you have no idea what it's like to be a girl. But if you're trying to establish that there are more guys that are characteristically "cool guys" then you're also sorely mistaken.

Who brought standards into this, you ask? You did, dumbass. You establish a standard of some "cool, attractive, worthwile" female that is so rare. But that the same standard of men is decidedly more pleantiful so women shouldn't be bitching. Are you sure you're fully litterate? How's that NOT establishing a standard.

So what, you're allowed to make these demands of a "smart, attractive, worthwhile" girl because you're so desireable? Or do you just believe that it's impossible for a guy that doesn't fit that to exist? You still didn't answer why guys should be allowed to be creepy jackasses to girls that fit this standard but girls obviously should just settle for said creepy jackass because there's no such thing as a guy who isn't "cool, smart, and attractive."

You have no right to comment on my situation, you weren't there, you didn't know the guy. The guy that harassed me was a pretentious asshole, I'm sorry I don't want some creepy self-absorbed jackass who took a philosophy 101 course and thinks he's the next Plato and that decides he's absolutely in love with someone after only knowing them for a week because she also likes anime.

This thread has been closed. You cannot post in this thread any longer.