H.M. Workshop: Meeting women (57)

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-11 02:25 ID:aeYdrGkG

Oh Gee Willikers....

Look, some of you who say "Hotaru, you're too cynical, blah blah blah, anti woman, blah blah blah, gender line larger blah blah blah"

I say: Chill the fuck out.

Sincerely, Chill the fuck out.

Men can be just as whorish as women. I don't know about you, but I wouldn't be involved with a whorish woman. A woman who is intimate with you, doesn't necessarily have to be she's whorish. It's a step you took that hopefully took a lot of trust.

WHAT I AM SAYING IS:

Men and women ARE different. They are supposed to be.

Someone mentioned the "nice guy" thing. Hey, I think I'm a nice fellow.

You SHOULD be a nice guy. Just don't be a door mat and don't be needy or clingy. There are so many people in this world that just because ONE girl looks kind of cute or gives you a little more attention than you are used to doesn't mean that she's your life now or anything.

To have a relationship of that kind of a bond takes years if not a lifetime.

Here's the thing. Yes, I AM the Hotaru Maniac. Some of you may know me, some of you may not. I've lived a few years on this shitty planet and I can tell you this.

Girls are a hobby of mine. Does that offend you? Does that sound shitty? GOOD, because it means you've understood.

I like female attention, female company, and yes I even like the feel of a girl pressed against me and her skin. I like to hear her talk, and I like to hear her ideas, fears, aspirations, and the fruits of her education.

I'm not a womanizer, player, pick up artist, or pussyhound. I haven't slept with that many women over a period of a at least two decades. But every woman I've ever been intimate with has meant a lot to me. I'm still in single digits. It isn't about sex.

You're all just frustrated. There are no perfect people in the world, we are all flawed. Our flaws make us who we are. There are no pure, angelic idyllic girls in the world. The ones that come close are too rare.

Life is not an anime. Life is not a dating computer game. Life is fatal, hard, random, and painful. All of this in between brief and fleeting moments of joy and triumph.

I've done a few things in my day....I've been to a few countries, got to experience Communism in action(it sucks) had to learn a new language, denounce my native land(it sucked anyways), and do all kinds of things. I've had to sleep in a place where bugs can kill you(literally) in a shitty town in South Africa. I had to do a lot of things. This isn't about that. I can talk about guns, tactics, and bullshit all day long. I'm choosing to talk about girls, here and now.

Hard times make you stronger, smarter, and better if not at least tougher. We all get rejected by women at times. That's a good thing. Hell, -I- have rejected as many women as much as women have rejected -me-. Nothing wrong with it. It doesn't mean you aren't "good enough". It doesn't mean anything. It just means they weren't interested. Just like you may not be interested in certain people.

I LIKE the difference between men and women. It's a GOOD thing. Androgyny and oversensitivity is stupid. I WANT a girl. I WANT a female to dress in skirts, grow her hair, and be a girl. Just like they want MEN. REAL Men.

I'm not a macho. I'm really not. But, look...just...Man the fuck up already, okay? All of you. I say that constructively.

Man the fuck up. It's not a matter of moving out of the basement, it's not a matter of anything else. It's just.

Man the fuck up. Live your life, talk to people, learn, better yourself, and do the things YOU like to do.

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