man this is a tough one.
personally i don't believe in relationships that are formed purely based on online communication. i did get to know my gf online but after several msn chats we did manage to meet up in both group and one-on-one settings.
anyway dude, if you want a relationship i think you should be trying to get a job and money so as to make yourself a better man. which girl would want a poor guy over someone who's got an income...no offence...