How do I ask a friend out? (11)

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-12-18 21:26 ID:FZK/do0u

(I'm a girl, by the way ☆)
I think that you should offhandedly (but not too much so) mention your feelings for her. If you make a big deal out of asking her out for a real date, it will make her feel really horrible if she wants to reject you, and that will put a strain later on your relationship.
If you ask her cooly to go somewhere with you (but definately specify that it's a date and not just an outing-- a misunderstanding between terminology would be awful!) then she will feel less pressured, not only because she's talking to you as a friend, but also because it will make her feel like your entire life isn't based on her answer (even if it might be). Her answer will be more honest and less impulsive that way.

Good luck~!! ♪♪

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