Didn't know if this fit better in sexuality or romance, but meh. No, I'm not talking about the animals here. What I'm wondering is how to get with an older woman who is specifically looking for younger guys. Why I'm asking this is because I realize that I fail with both the semi-lolis (16-17 year olds) and girls my own age. No, I'm not ugly (I'd consider myself at least average, likely better). I think what has kept me from the above categories is more of a lack of anything to discuss with them (I really don't care for pop culture related small talk). I have realized, however, that I feel much more comfortable talking with older woman (though I only occasionally get the chance to get to talk to the types I'd want to fuck). I'm 20, so I guess this eliminates the most obvious answer (bars). While I don't necessarily need the stereotypical MILF, I'd be looking for a fuckable older woman. Has anyone here had any experience with this? I'm a complete beginner to this sort of thing, so any advice would be appreciated.
No, no, and NO.
Older women with younger guys are only doing it for one reason: Because no men their own age will date them. And as soon as she does find some yuppie with a BMW and a golf habit, you'll be GONE.
If you're failing with girls your own age, perhaps you should change (or overhaul) your strategy. Think about how you present yourself, how you appear from the girl's eyes.
They're called cougars for a reason. You mess with them, you get scratched the fuck up.
I think you misunderstood what I was saying (perhaps this did belong in the sex section). Essentially, I don't care if I'm gone after as little as one time (this is actually what I'm looking for). I'm not really interested in a stable relationship, I'm just looking for sex after failing miserably with those younger than me and those my own age. At least for now, I've given up on the prospects of a relationship; I really don't care for attempting to make anything like that happen. In all honesty, I'm just looking to lose my virginity (at my age it's about fucking time) in a memorable experience with a more mature woman. Prostitution is out of the question, as I at least want the experience to be memorable.
I'm slightly drunk as I write this, so I wouldn't be surprised if it comes out like complete shit, but meh.
Something memorable huh? How about losing it after getting married?
>I at least want the experience to be memorable
How memorable can it possibly be if you're just using this person to satisfy your libido?
If you're just looking for someone to provide you with sex then you better be sure that that's what you truly want. You said yourself that you're not interested in someone like a prostitute but unless you take that route you'll most likely find some degree of difficulty. They might not exactly be a prostitute but it's unlikely they'll be anything to write home about either.
If you can't get a one-night stand with younger women, what makes you think you'll get one with an older woman? In my opinion, the older ones are harder to please. Although if they haven't gotten any in a while they could be more desperate...
Older ones are desperate, but desperate for semen to complete their baby as their biological clocks are ticking.
A ticking time bomb if you ask me, which you don't.
But even the fakes cougars are good. Why? Because due to some injurity in my early childhood I AM ABSOLUTELY AND COMPLETELY STERILE.
Dear drunk cougar lover,
~ A guy (your age) should be able to bag-a-babe (no matter what age) with the following phrase: "Whoa! Yer like, ...HOT!"
Yep. If she's horny for a drunk 20-something... dude you're in!
{Try the bar & grill at your local airport and/or zoo.}
Cougars will tend to go after fit, handsome young men, possibly in attempt to fulfill fantasies or recreate memories of when they were young and were the object of attraction. The thing with cougars is they are picky and you need the right attitude for them to hunt you (they are cougars after all). Put yourself in places where they can notice you. Look nice, look professional. Cougars are attracted to younger men, not boys, so be mature. And when attracting any girl, confidence is key.
I would say, try looking on craigslist or okcupid and start your search there. Don't try to sound desperate or like a child unless the only cougars you will see are the ones in porn.
whats up with you thread necros clocking in overtime all over /love/?
It is a cougar thread, it is past its prime but wants to stay young
>>12 This post is/was relevant to me. I thought the board was open to the public. I saw the date, but cougar-relationships are as old as Adam & Eve. (or at least Eve & her kids) I appologize for sharing my thoughts on YOUR public board. bye.
>>14 chill out. this is only one of about a half dozen threads that suddenly got necroed over the last week or so. actually from the looks of it, it might be you doing all that.
yeah, get off MY public board.
I saw one of those cougar people women at a Sam's with a guy who was in his mid 20s. She was at least 45 and she was wearing clothes that was a size smaller than she was. She was a "fuck her and dump her" girl. Good looking, but not great.
These cougar bitches scare me. Cougars should only be the ones on Discovery HD...and that is it.
Best to find someone your own age dear! we just use you, and besides we have been with many a men!