amirite? (16)

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-07 05:56 ID:WGv/L9cO

> cold, cruel calculations about what kind of good you can do for her in the long run.

I think it's more accurate (and motivating) to say everyone is 100% selfish.
We only pursue people we ourselves interested in based on what they can do for us, even if what they do for us is raise our dopamine levels.
If a person was completely selfless, they might go around dating people they feel sorry for.

Do you want to waste your time with someone who doesn't care for you?
I wouldn't want to be a charity case, would you?

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