Ok I have a dilema. I'm in college and the guy I like goes to the same school. About 3 or 4 months ago we both went to a party, and some things happened. We fooled around but didn't go all the way. There have been several other times like this that went on and off for a couple of months. We talked and I told him I loved him, he said he couldn't say the same right now. He hasn't said yes and he hasn't said no. He bad broken up with his girlfriend who lived in California, when this was all going on, I was there the night he did it. It was about a month and a half later, in the middle of December that he said he had a new girlfriend. He said that she reminds him a lot of his old girlfriend, he said that he broke up with his old one because of the distance, but he's sure if he was closer to her that they'd still be together. I personally think he's just trying to have a second chance with a girl that has the same personality as his old girlfriend. It's been about a month since they started going out. He told me the last night we talked that he wanted to have sex with her really badly and that was a month ago. He told me about they're first night out, he said they made out and stuff. I know they've already had sex. Anyway what ended up happening between us is that I got mad and jealous and said that I didn't want to be his friend anymore, he said whatever. I spoke out in anger, cuz I still want to be his friend and possibly more. He and I are only 21. I've haven't talked to him for about a month, and I can't say I "love" him anymore but I still really like him and want to be around him, just not while he's with his current girlfriend. Is there any hope of him ever having feelings for me? Is it possible for us to have a relationship even though all this has happened?

Yes there is always a possibility for practically everything. There's a possibility a 747 will crash into your room tomorrow. Anything can happen. But the chances are rather slim

This just reminds me of all the useless crap feelings have dragged me into over the years... Drama
and shit
Fuck it
You both seem like emotional morons, what's the point? As already proven, the two of you will probably just have friction, and he is all into this idea of what kind of girl he wants and it isn't you. Only reason he said "I can't say the same right now" is either;

1. He was afraid to hurt your feelings, but in a stupid way, i.e. he didn't want you to hate him.
2. He wants to keep you as a backup in case he gets starved for affection down the road and needs a snack. It would seem he has already used you in that regard.

No
Instead, you should find a nice and stable guy who isn't taken by a million tons of relational baggage