Should I Give her a Valentines Gift? (6)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-31 03:43 ID:7K2Uuyue

So in November last year I finally Kissed the girl I had been head over heels for since April (to which she did say "Why Didn't you Tell Me Sooner! Geeze!") and we became Boyfriend and Girlfriend.

I had been warned from her friends that she's nervous about relationships and doesn't think she is very good with them, which I did find out to be very true, since..

We then Broke up Three Weeks later.

And I know it was my fault, Since two days before we did become quite close with each other, more so than either of us had been with a member of the opposite sex before when the that Sunday.. basically a guy seemed to be flirting with her, which pissed me off but I didn't know how to react so instead of competing I walked off, which left her hurt, she was already afraid of getting hurt so she wanted to end it before she felt uncomfortable around me.

I tried to mend things within the month of December but things had gotten weird between us. Then in January we seemed to be getting closer again, where we can banter playfully with each other again, but this time she never completely answers me whenever I ask if she wants to come over to my place just to hang out, watch Animé or play Video Games, when before we were dating and during she seemed totally ok with it.

I know she liked me beforehand (especially since she's told me during and after our short relationship, I did look perfect and I'm the best kisser she's had) and I've only messed up once between us, So I'm thinking if I do still have a chance,
Would it be a good idea to give her presents on Valentines Day?
Or is that pushing it too far?

2 Name: F!ublu7ZdqEU : 2008-01-31 03:48 ID:F4ZqWU+9

It is better to regret doing something then doing nothing at all. I doubt she would hold it against you if it was innapr. So go for it, you like her and i'm pretty sure this is the perfect moment to take it up to the next level (relationship?again). If not, then you can always stay friend or whatever.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-31 09:01 ID:az3xdcgu

here's this: U STILL LOVE HER?!!! if u do...DO IT!! I agree wit >>2...it's better 2 endure da pain than regretin' another loss at love.

However...if it's just a friend thing 2 do...4getit!!

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-01-31 13:10 ID:RJePBXrJ

If you want to get her something, I would say do something like put some real effort into making your own card for her. If you buy loads of flowers and chocolates it may be a bit too over the top and scare her off.

I'm not sure how she'll react. It's good that she liked you before you dated, that could mean that she still likes you now but is just scared. But not wanting to hang out with you is a bit of a bad sign as it seems she isn't all that comfortable about being alone with you.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-01 19:30 ID:FEdbpcJX

It sounds like both of you might be too immature/young to handle a real relationship. Of course, that's not going to stop you anyway, so take a chance, cast your fate to the wind, confess to her on Valentine's Day. There are rare occasions in which life imitates Hollywood; you could get lucky.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-02 05:57 ID:q/KYbJ7l

I especially like >>4's advice about making your own card. I know I'd like a small handmade card or gift moreso than a whole load of gaudy chocolates and flowers XD

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