How to say you're already involved w someone, but leave the door open? (6)

1 Name: Question : 2008-02-04 10:30 ID:Ks0ONWSc

Ok, so I've got someone I'm going to go on a date with shortly, yet another person just suddenly expressed interest in me; I'm a one-girl guy, and I'm not going to go behind person1's back, and agree to meet person2, but at this point, I still have yet to date person1, and who knows, it may just not work out...

How can I suavely tell person2 that though I'm occupied at the moment and I hope she finds someone else, but make clear that if in the future I wasn't occupied, maybe we could get together?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-04 10:34 ID:KXSPajAg

Say, "I was trying to think of a way to suavelt tell you that though I'm occupied at the moment, and I hope you find someone else, I want to make it clear that if in the future I'm not occupied, maybe you'll give me a chance."

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-04 11:00 ID:Heaven

>>2
That's probably the most honest thing to do.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-04 13:29 ID:B/oXHexd

>>2
for some reason that reminds me of a toilet

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-05 01:14 ID:rhtwPT6X

Go with the girl that has the most interest in you. If that means turning down Girl 1 after one date, so be it.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-05 01:45 ID:52Tp5Do7

>>1

If you have yet to date this other chick, you have no obligation towards her. As long as it is just getting to know eachother, you could do that with the otherone too, and find out which one likes you best, and also, which one you like best.

But if you do, be honest about that you are seeing two girls, before any one of them get to close. You know to downsize the risk of emotional injury.

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