Thanks >>11, you make some very good points;
I've made made some decisions since then...
- I sent an e-mail to LocalGirl, asking if since she had mentioned if there was anything fun, to let her know, and mentioned going to a store, so we'll see if she replies...
- I then sent an e-mail to OnlineGirl, saying that Indeed, she shouldn't be concerned that I didn't want to know her better, because I do, but that to be dead honest, I was being fair to her and also other people who'd contacted me on the dating site, even prior to her, that I just felt after seeing all the problems I've seen recently, I wasn't sure how deeply I wanted to get involved in a relationship, because in the past I'd jumped into steady dating without even getting to know someone as even a friend, first; I said that I felt that with how open we've been, I could be comfortable being that honest and she'd understand me;
This way, it keeps things open until I can see OnlineGirl, and also I bit the bullet & contacted LocalGirl...
We'll see what happens...